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Some 2K10 Goals by God's special grace n power
Paint entire house
Set up entire downstairs including garage
Reduce credit card debt by at least $2k
Pay off any miscellaneous debt
Most definitely get into a committed relationship
Most definitely send money to mom for a new car
Take time to develop relationships
At least, 2 patents
Aggresively work on developing iPhone App dev skills
Create a webpage for DJing
Expand my career breadth
Visit London
Join Toastmasters
Create a will and a Power of Attorney 4 Healthcare
Take complete control of soda drinking
Work on taking a CPR class
SO, HELP ME GOD!
Some 2K7 Goals by God's special grace n power
Finally buy some Nyja stocks
Get a loaded Thinkpad or Sony Vaio
Join MentorPlace n consistently mentor
Put at least $2K in stocks apart from investment club contr. & 401k
I have this lady that I tutor in Math periodically. If only they paid teachers more money, that's what I will do for a living for sure cos I really enjoy it (one of the few things that I can say that I enjoy passionately). Anywayz, this lady is single, got a nice house, nice truck and over 40yrs old. Baiscally, nice older lady (won't say old cos they hate that) living large. Help me, peoples! The tutoring is in-house so I always go to her house to tutor. Everytime I go there, we talk about everything while tutoring. I don't know how it happens but all my tutees just find it very easy to talk to me about their family et business. Anywayz, I think this lady wants to sleep with me or something. Everytime we have a tutorial session, she always somehow drives the topic to sex et al. Everytime! One time, she told me about how she needs to take her dog - one nice huge dog that I always tell her to lock up when I'm there. Hey, I'm chicken, so what? She said she needed to take her dog to have sex with his partner, that way the dog can behave better. She then mentioned how that dogs gets more than she does. Then everytime she talks about how she has not had none in long while. I mean everytime! I'm like what the f&%^ is my biz with all that! And sometimes, I feel like she's pretending not to know what I'm teaching her et al. Maybe it's just me, but I think she's hinting stuff. But it definitely ain't happenning. She is cool peoples et al and pays me fine when I tutor her (I guess that could be another sign. :)). My mind is too preoccupied for that. Besides, naaa!!!! HELL NO!!!! But I got to say though, she has some huge jugs (more like buckets cos those things are bigger than 2 of my heads combined) and trunk ?(the type you can almost put a cup on and it will stand). I'm sure she doesn't imply that anyway. It's just me making a presumption. Either way, definitely not interested!!! Tofiakwa!
Hmm.... Lets just say she might/might not be attracted to you, or maybe you just look real yummy to her :)
But sleeping with her, sometimes guys get the wrong signals from women, maybe she just needs someone to talk to and not have sex with, but if you do look yummy:) as i said earlier on, you dont blame the chick for telling you she has not had it in a long while.
I talk about sex to most of the guys i meet and sometimes they do get the wrong impression that i want to have sex with them its but they are wrong just about 99% of the time. just that i naturally have a dirty mind :D
See if she makes any moves and if she does then she wants to. Just keep your distance as you are doing. Goodluck and dont mind my ramblings....
Boy please! Go ahead and do what you do best and let there be PEACE! You don't need to put out a disclaimer first coz she's old, its not like you've ever discriminated in the past
To Nneka & uknaija - Trust me, I am definitely not doing it. There is no need for it whatsoever. In the frist place, I am not even tempted in any way whatsoever. :)
to anonymous: there will be peace if nothing happens. And I am not trying to impress you or anyone else - so there is no need for disclaimer. I do not hide who I am from anybody. If I am doing anything, I say it; there is no need to hide it.
BIKO!!!! That is temptation from the devil. Maybe it is the hunger from fasting that is making you see and hear things. Afterall Jesus too was tempted in the wilderness. Perhaps this is a test to see if you have control over the flesh. Just STAND UP!!! STAND OUT AND STAND RIGHT!!!! Remember what pastor said on Sataurday 'RESIST-REBUKE-RUN-AND-FLEE. Next time when she comes around with that bedroomness tell her 'Ye daughter of Sheba Get thee behind me. Be gone before i call 911!!!' Lol.... you'll be aight though.
LOL!!!Did you say huge jugs? Wetin ur mind dey do, teach d old lady or ..... U sef don dey enter d equation? Teacher, r u sure u r not teaching nonsense already?!
to annonymous1: there is no need to make stories. everyone of us has stories in our lives, sometimes we just don't notice them. And I know people see stuff online, but by December, my tutorials session will be over, :) so even if she sees it, she won't see me and I know I will look more ridiculous anyway cos she's probably not hinting anything. I might just be misreading stuff. Anyway, what are the odds?
to annonymouses:) Tofiakwa is the Ibo (Things Fall Apart's protagonist's tribe) way of saying "Over my dead body."
“You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:6-8) (Read by Max McLean. Provided by The Listener's Audio Bible.)
Hmm....
Lets just say she might/might not be attracted to you, or maybe you just look real yummy to her :)
But sleeping with her, sometimes guys get the wrong signals from women, maybe she just needs someone to talk to and not have sex with, but if you do look yummy:) as i said earlier on, you dont blame the chick for telling you she has not had it in a long while.
I talk about sex to most of the guys i meet and sometimes they do get the wrong impression that i want to have sex with them its but they are wrong just about 99% of the time. just that i naturally have a dirty mind :D
See if she makes any moves and if she does then she wants to. Just keep your distance as you are doing.
Goodluck and dont mind my ramblings....